www.andrewgmarshall.com http Andrew G Marshall offers advice on Infidelity from his book, Infidelity: From Discovery to Recovery in Seven steps, a supportive and practical guide to coping with adultery and saving your relationship There are few things in life more traumatic than discovering that your partner is having an affair. You are not only coping with the pain and anger but also the sense that your partner is a stranger. How could someone you love, and thought that you knew, treat you in this way? How can you ever trust your partner again? With over 25 years experience as a marital therapist, Marshall draws on hundreds of case studies, and provides sensible, compassionate and practical advice.
Handle any emergency with Howcast's First Aid app - howc.stExpand the description and view the text of the steps for this how-to video. Check out Howcast for other do-it-yourself videos from Equilibrio and more videos in the Infidelity category. You can contribute too! Create your own DIY guide at www.howcast.com or produce your own Howcast spots with the Howcast Filmmakers Program at www.howcast.com An affair of the heart can be every bit as painful -- and sometimes even more so -- than a physical one. Safeguard your relationship with these tips. To complete this How-To you will need: Relationship radar Good communication Avoidance of temptation Step 1: Know the difference between a platonic friendship and an emotional affair: The line's been crossed if there's continual sexual tension, secrecy, or an emotional connection you don't share with your partner. Step 2: Beware of the "office spouse." If you're the one with a sexually charged friendship at work, limit personal conversations and don't allow the bantering to spill into after-office hours. If your mate seems to be getting too close to a colleague, remind them -- without acting overtly insecure -- to keep the relationship professional. Step 3: Be alert for signs that a partner has a special online relationship: spending an inordinate amount of time on their computer, or changing their screen when you enter the room. If this is the case, be blunt about your suspicions. That may be enough to nip it in the bud. Tip ...
Danine Manette discusses Infidelity Signs: How to recognize and uncover infidelity in your relationship. Manette is the author of Ultimate Betrayal: Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing with Infidelity. www.ultimatebetrayal.com