How can one get copy of birth certificate from cheating husband and girlfriend?

If a man is cheating on his wife and has had another child by this other woman, how can I get a copy of the birth certificate if I am not an immediate family member? I think this wife has the right to know her husband is scum. She has no clue and I can't go in with no proof.

I really don't want to stay out of it because I would hope someone tells me if my husband is having an affair.

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

How can a cheating husband still be affectionate to his wife?

How is it that a husband who is definitely cheating can still ask for cuddling, want to be close, say I love you randomly, talk about not having quality time lately, and keep a smile on their face when knowing that they're cheating and they say they aren't. If you have another woman who is probably more attractive, why would you still want your wife at times? How can you gut it? Would you do it not just to look suspicious?

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

Do you think a husband should stand by his cheating wife?

I do. You always hear people say, a wife should stand by her cheating husband, but every time a woman cheats on her husband or boyfriend, people demand he leave her. I cannot stand double standards. FYI: I don't believe in cheating.

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

CHEATING husband…!!!!?

my husband is a lawyer and with that being said his lying skills are somewhat of an "Artform"

With all his weaving and dodging and working late at night excuses, I decided to rock up to his job. No surprise, he apparently left work 3 hours earlier. So I went home on the grounds that if I have no hard facts I wouldn't accuse. he comes home at 4 in the morning, i confront him about not being at work, he failed to think on his feet this time and just came out and told me he had been cheating on me for the past 3 months. i found this out a week ago i am heartbroken as we have 3 children under the age of 6 and i believed we had a stable marriage. i am heartbroken as i said but now it is turning into anger he told me it was all my fault and i am not buying that sh!t for one minute, i want to throw all his sh!T out of the house, change the locks and let our Pomeranian piss all over his socks ( i am being serious) however as i said we have kids involved. he says i need to see a counselor before we can make things work and will continue to see the mistress until i "straighten up and fly right"..he said he's cheating because i have put on 5 pounds since we got married which has been 7 yrs…5 f'in pounds makes me unattractive? GRRRRRRR, i just want a divorce and serve him up a delicious plate of spiteful revenge….

should i try for the kids since it's still early in the piece or divorce?

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

What is the best way to confront my cheating husband when we have children in the house?

I am wanting to confront my husband about his cheating ways that I recently discovered but how do I do that with kids in the house? Should we go to a public place and discuss this or have someone to come and take the kids for a few hours while we talk? Because there is sure to be some screaming and yelling to take place! I don't want my kids disposed to our conversation.

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

cheating husband?

I'm 13 weeks pregnant with our 3rd child and I stumbled across some email that my husband had sent 2 of his exgirlfriends. They were flirting very heavily and making suggestions that they needed to meet up sometime. So, I guess its not exactly cheating but planning on it…? I don't know what to do. His family and I have been close up to this point but now they are defending him and I have had it so I let them know what I think about them. I told my husband that I would just get an abortion so that we could get divorced but I could never really do it. I just don't want to have to go the same road we did last time when we were separated when our youngest was a baby. We were in and out of court and hating each other the whole time. I just don't want to put another child through that…. What should I do?

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

Cheating husband?

Cheating husband?
my sister got married (arranged marriage , the family background is very good also the guy seemed loving and passionate) in india and came to US a month back. now after realising that the husband is cheating her, he is having affair with another woman and harrassing her in all the way and knowing that he married her for money or some other reasons she begged him that they can go back to india and start a new life. but he refused al that and the abuse continued . My sister went back to india now with the help of all of us. now we dont know what to do.. the husband is enjoying in america while my sister's life is screwed. How to payback this cheating rascal ? we have filed complaint here inUS and also in india . How can the guy be happily here continuing his sex life with another girl while my siter is facing all the trouble involving divorce and reliving everything when approching cops and lawyers?? we do have proof.

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.

Cheating Husband?

I've been married for 10 years and found out my husband had been cheating with a co-worker. I've told him I know and he said he has stopped. But now I am having a hard time trusting him. What would you do any ideas?

Andrew Larder
Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.