my husband is a lawyer and with that being said his lying skills are somewhat of an "Artform"
With all his weaving and dodging and working late at night excuses, I decided to rock up to his job. No surprise, he apparently left work 3 hours earlier. So I went home on the grounds that if I have no hard facts I wouldn't accuse. he comes home at 4 in the morning, i confront him about not being at work, he failed to think on his feet this time and just came out and told me he had been cheating on me for the past 3 months. i found this out a week ago i am heartbroken as we have 3 children under the age of 6 and i believed we had a stable marriage. i am heartbroken as i said but now it is turning into anger he told me it was all my fault and i am not buying that sh!t for one minute, i want to throw all his sh!T out of the house, change the locks and let our Pomeranian piss all over his socks ( i am being serious) however as i said we have kids involved. he says i need to see a counselor before we can make things work and will continue to see the mistress until i "straighten up and fly right"..he said he's cheating because i have put on 5 pounds since we got married which has been 7 yrs…5 f'in pounds makes me unattractive? GRRRRRRR, i just want a divorce and serve him up a delicious plate of spiteful revenge….
should i try for the kids since it's still early in the piece or divorce?
Andrew Larder Author is fascinated by the spy techniques, tactics and ways of dealing wwith the possibility of a cheating spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife.