After a few months? He cheated on her and she filed for divorce. Advice isn’t for me but for my sister.
Would she feel better if I told her that one of her ex-boyfriends loves her?
It’s kinda creepy but he does still love her.
of course its common to miss the person you thought you would spend your whole life with, doesnt mean its smart to go back to them though.
if they cheated once they’ll do it again.
its hard to get back into the dating scene and things liek that so of course a person gets loney, remembers all the good times with the ex, etc and ends up missing them
tell her she will be okay with time, trust me i know, tell her to write down sentences of all the horrible evil mean things he did, thigns she didnt like about him etc. it will help her begin to see him for the real things he were and will help her miss him less.
also, remind her that jealousy does not mean love. just because she is jealous that he is with soemoen new (if he is) things like that, does not mean she loves him.
usually it helps a person take unrealistic sentences out of their head such as
"she took me husband away"
and change them to
"my husband LEFT because he wanted to. he is not an object or a possession and noone took him away, he left"
remind her to remember that chances are if he left maybe there were things he wanted that she wasnt WILLING to give, which means she was only doing best for herself say in her case
he wanted her to let him cheat and forgive him like if nothing happened.
she was NOT willing to do this, so it ended.
it was her choice and she is better off with the good choices she has made.
also, tell her to remind herself that people get divorces after YEARS of marriage, 20 + years and they make it out ok, she will too.
these things helped me. good luck