Well I wrote, maybe a week ago that I really think my husband is cheating on me, from the way he has changed a great deal, and him always coming home late. Anyway the women I suspect him with, works with him… anyway to my question, I really want to know if he is, and if I ask him about it leads to a big argument, and then he then thinks im cheating for asking, or puts the blame on me. Anyway he is really close friends with this guy, and he also works with him. Anyway his friend is a great person, and I honestly think if he knows something he may tell me, but I really don’t want to put him in the middle of my husbands and I problem. And the fact them being really close friends, I dont want him to go back and tell my husband I asked. I really feel in my heart he is cheating, but I dont have the money to hire a Private investiagtor, and I was going to do the get a friend, and go to his work, and follow him, but all my friends are his close friends too, and he knows there vehicles. So I dont even know how to go about it, I know he has a record of cheating, because alot of his ex’s i talk with them sometimes, not really close friends but i know they are telling the truth.
It’s sad when a marriage gets to the point that one has to be a detective. Why are you talking with his exes? If you think that is healthy, then ask one of them to do your spying for you. You already know he is cheating….why don’t you just put yourself out of your misery? You can’t be happy….
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July 26th, 2010 at 2:42 am
It’s sad when a marriage gets to the point that one has to be a detective. Why are you talking with his exes? If you think that is healthy, then ask one of them to do your spying for you. You already know he is cheating….why don’t you just put yourself out of your misery? You can’t be happy….
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July 26th, 2010 at 2:55 am
One of my best single gal pals has been seeing a married guy for about a year now. His best friend’s wife is good friends with my gal pals lover’s wife and also his best friend knows about their relationship. But he would NEVER tell the wife, or even his own wife! Guy’s stick together in these things. So you need to find another way to get to the bottom if the story. All the best,
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July 26th, 2010 at 3:37 am
If you work, take the day off. Rent a car he would not recognize. Follow him after work. Simple.
The cost? The price of the rented car for that day. Cheap.
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July 26th, 2010 at 4:10 am
Don’t ask the friend, you won’t be able to trust the answers and it puts him in a bad spot.
Purchase a cheap $80 GPS tracking unit. Hide it in his car somewhere. When you download where he’s been you’ll have all the information you need to incriminate him.
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July 26th, 2010 at 4:22 am
You having suspicions usually your instincts are correct. You already asked him if he was cheating and he denied it so stop asking him and start doing something. You can find out yourself by using someones car that he doesn’t recognize. Get a hat and glasses for a disguize. I found out my ex husband cheated on me by calling the last number he called on the phone. He lied and told me how dare I call one of his clients at work and the lady was an old lady. I called the lady and she was older I was 27 at the time and she was 42 he left me for her. He made my life so much better and I strived to change myself to a better person. I was devestated at first but life moves on. I am much happier and married a better guy.
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July 26th, 2010 at 5:00 am
you already know he’s cheating so now you ask your self do you want to stay with him or work things out. let him know you will not take this disrespect of him coming in late . if he tries to come in late you add another lock on that door don’t give him that key and lock his butt out when he tries to come in late . you just need to let him know wha you want and don’t want. speak up
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July 26th, 2010 at 5:20 am
well rent a car follow him…. i mean if u truley think he is cheating trust me ur gut feeling dnt lie… i jus found out mine was cheating on me… but the stupid dumb ass left his myspace open n i got home to find it…. i didnt have to catch him he got busted all alone!!!! but i knew he was cheating i had that feeling….
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July 26th, 2010 at 6:08 am
1. Usually the person who accuses the other of cheating is either terribly insecure, or cheating themselves. I’m not surprised that he’s upset, hurt, and offended that you’ve repeatedly accused him of breaking his marital vows. Let’s assume for a moment that he’s NOT cheating. Shouldn’t the blame be put on you?
2. He’s changed a great deal, and comes home late. Just curious: are there any other possible reasons why he’s changed, or why he comes home late? Perhaps he’s working hard to support his family. And perhaps he feels his hard work is unappreciated, so he’s "changed".
3. If you feel the need to stalk your husband, then do so. Just know that the outcome of your stalking will be bad for the relationship, no matter what you find. If he’s cheating, then you’re likely headed for fighting and possible divorce. If he’s not cheating, you’ve proven to him that there is no trust in your relationship, you’re incredibly insecure, and unappreciative of all his hard work. I have no idea whether he’s cheating or not. I do know, however, that you better be absolutely sure he’s cheating before you start following him around. There are very few things you can do that are more insulting and offensive then accusing the man you married that he’s being unfaithful when he’s not.
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July 26th, 2010 at 6:17 am
I can see why he cheats on you. I hope the rest of the readers pick up on all those glaring clues you left.
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July 26th, 2010 at 6:57 am
Forget the PI. Go through his cell phone…..its all there. If its not it soon will be. Also, web sites exist. Google what you asked on here. More info is available than you would believe. I caught my wife with the phone.
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