my boyfriend sometimes rather play with himself than to have sex it’s been going on for about a month does it neccessarilt means the he’s cheating and having sex with someone else?

probably, or else he is just interested anymore (both are not good)

1. odd hours (staying out late)
2. wierd unknown phone calls
3. no interest in spending time together or having sex

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8 Responses to “what are the top 3 signs in a cheating spouse?”

  1. Misch Says:

    probably, or else he is just interested anymore (both are not good)

    1. odd hours (staying out late)
    2. wierd unknown phone calls
    3. no interest in spending time together or having sex
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  2. tazzz6413 Says:

    1. always works late. or on call 2. gets moody when asked where he or she was. 3. Always have friends that need him or her for some odd favor or job.
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    been there done that.

  3. J. H. Says:

    My wife says ‘NO’ Playing with yourself is not a sign! Another sign that he is cheating is that he is suddenly being extra nice to you. One more sign that your man is cheating, is that he is doing new and different things in the bedroom, confusing you with the other woman.

    I say to my wife that I jerk off because it’s less work to jerk it than it is to bang her out. It’s all about quick relief with little work.
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    From the Wife, and From the Dome!

  4. NEED 2 KNOW Says:

    No it does not mean he is cheating. When a man is cheating you will know. You may not want to admit but you will know. No one can give you the top three signs of your man cheating. All men are not the same. You know him better than us. You will know. Don’t accuse him, observe him. You don’t want your paranoia to lose your spouse.
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  5. rosette Says:

    If you think he’s cheating he probable is. Some can hide very well ,even if they’re having sex with you on a regular.
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  6. maya Says:

    He might be, but it can be that he isn’t interested in sex with you anymore.
    My advice, watch him. Is he going somewhere without telling you? When you ask him where he was does he look you in the eye when he answers?
    Also, dress sexier then usuall. Show him you can be atractive. Let him see that other men are looking at you. That should make him want you.
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  7. sukey32 Says:

    Top 3 signs of a cheating spouse:
    #1 Defensiveness if you ask questions
    #2 Too many detatils…..out of guilt, he will provide too many details of his whereabouts or what he did.
    #3 Disinterest in lovemaking with you

    Keep a journal of things you see, feel and reflect back to see if there any patterns that may repeat. Women are cursed or blessed with a 6th sense that tells us when things are not right. Trust your intuition.
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    I’ve been there.

  8. smart ass Says:

    no it does not mean he is cheating on you if he was he wouldn’t need to jack off now would he look for the little things if you think he is cheating like hang up calls coming home getting right in the shower ignoreing you the sudden talk about some one new he has meet usally when a guy meets some one new he is messing around with that is all he talks about example i met tia and she is really nice and friendly and guess what she said/did today you get the point trust me you will no but if all he is doing is his self ask him why maybe he is more self centered than you knew or maybe he is pissed off at you for something don’t be scared ask him what the deal is hope this helps
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