That is a very tricky question. I usually believe to forgive the first time.But lately I have wondered if that is possible. If my husband cheated he would pay a hefty price to regain my trust. I have come to the conclusion that once a cheater always a cheater. What would he do if you said you were going to have a fling to get even? Maybe, if you are game you could join a swingers club. Whatever way you decide keep him on a very short leash. He could be catching a venereal disease, so make sure you use a condom until he has been checked.
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14 Responses to “If you catch your husband cheating…can the marraige ever be saved? can you ever trust him again?”
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August 1st, 2010 at 8:01 am
Me? No.
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August 1st, 2010 at 8:07 am
It will be hard…but it can be done!
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August 1st, 2010 at 8:33 am
If you are willing to give him the chance it can happen. but it will take time.
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August 1st, 2010 at 9:08 am
i would have to say no
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August 1st, 2010 at 9:32 am
Nope for me the trust would be gone forever and the marriage would be over even if it was only a 1 time thing.
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August 1st, 2010 at 10:05 am
not really. you can stay together but trust would be difficult
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August 1st, 2010 at 10:21 am
It can be done. He would have to commit all over again and be responsible in aiding in the recovering of her trust. It’s up to the wife. It will take a long time for the trust to come back. She will go thru so many ups and downs. The husband will need to be strong to help her get thru the affair.
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August 1st, 2010 at 10:56 am
I haven’t gone through that but I know the trust would be gone and it would be hard to trust him again but maybe with counseling and trying hard to put it behind, it might work out.
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August 1st, 2010 at 11:19 am
I couldn’t trust him again, ever. They always do it again.
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August 1st, 2010 at 11:55 am
No.
I have yet to know someone who has cheated only once.
Some people just don’t understand self-discipline.
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August 1st, 2010 at 12:33 pm
yes i guess it can be saved but it takes so much hard work and dedication. and obviously he needs to know what went wrong that caused him to cheat.
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August 1st, 2010 at 12:55 pm
if its a one time only or one night stand yes i think if he were remorseful and sorry one could get past that, but an affair no.
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August 1st, 2010 at 1:11 pm
Thats up to you Personaly, Everyone is different.
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August 1st, 2010 at 1:38 pm
That is a very tricky question. I usually believe to forgive the first time.But lately I have wondered if that is possible. If my husband cheated he would pay a hefty price to regain my trust. I have come to the conclusion that once a cheater always a cheater. What would he do if you said you were going to have a fling to get even? Maybe, if you are game you could join a swingers club. Whatever way you decide keep him on a very short leash. He could be catching a venereal disease, so make sure you use a condom until he has been checked.
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