pleasuring him or herself in your home. He’s startled and embarrassed. Are you disgusted? Do you expect an apology? How do you react?
IF YOUR A WOMAN AND YOU catch your husband DOING IT TELL HIM NOT TOO LET YOU INTERUPT HIM AND SO IF HE CONTUNIES WALK OVER TOO HIM GET ON YOUR KNEES AND TELL HIM LET ME HELP YOU.AND THEY GUY SHOULD DO THE SAME IF THEY CATCH THEIR WOMAN DOING IT.
16 Responses to “You catch your spouse doing this….?”
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June 22nd, 2010 at 5:55 am
it depends. If your in one of those relationships where sex is dead. then get upset. if your in a very healthy relationship then I don’t see why it’s that big of a deal. laugh and ask if you could watch. turn it into a joke or jus walk away like nothing happend
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June 22nd, 2010 at 6:16 am
No you shouldn’t be disgusted… it’s completely normal.
It doesn’t matter if you’re married or not sometimes people feel the need to pleasure themselves.
Of course they are embarrassed but only because they were caught off guard during a very private moment. And of course it is startling for the person walking in on it too. It’s just a little bit akward, but there is nothing wrong with that.
But there should be no apology expected, that’s just silly. He/She isn’t doing anything wrong they are doing something very natural.
I would probably shut the door and then start laughing hysterically and the fact that I caught him! But there is no reason to be mad about it.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 6:31 am
I don’t mind, I masturbate, why shouldn’t he. I know he does, he knows i do. Sometimes you just want to go it alone.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 7:21 am
you should offer him a helping hand
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June 22nd, 2010 at 7:33 am
I reassure him by letting him know that I have no problem with it…and ask if he wants help or privacy…then respect his answer.
Am I disgusted? No. He’s known his penis longer than he’s known me. An apology? No..masturbation is perfectly normal.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 8:11 am
Shift workers with opposite hours, happens all the time.
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Hairy Palms and bad eyesight
June 22nd, 2010 at 8:26 am
lol. I say, do you need some help with that and I jump on top.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 8:57 am
No, I would not be disgusted, he wouldn’t be embarrassed, hell no if he would apologize I would think something was terrible wrong. How would I react? I would let him take care of himself while entertaining. Doesn’t anyone have an imagination in their relationships? You have to keep your marriage alive. If you get jealous, disgusted, expect an apology then you need to get more comfortable with your own body & sexuality. Masturbation is completely normal.
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My marriage, being comfortable with my body & sexuality while taking damn good care of my husband AND myself.
June 22nd, 2010 at 9:03 am
flash news girl: men do it even when they are married or in a relationship. its very normal. whatever.
don’t you do it at times too?
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June 22nd, 2010 at 9:29 am
Expect an apology because he is jerkin his gherkin?
Now, if he is mopping up his goo with your good, embroiderd towels, then that is a problem and deserves an apology.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 10:19 am
Apology for what?? It’s perfectly normal.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 10:31 am
IF YOUR A WOMAN AND YOU CATCH YOUR HUSBAND DOING IT TELL HIM NOT TOO LET YOU INTERUPT HIM AND SO IF HE CONTUNIES WALK OVER TOO HIM GET ON YOUR KNEES AND TELL HIM LET ME HELP YOU.AND THEY GUY SHOULD DO THE SAME IF THEY CATCH THEIR WOMAN DOING IT.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 11:03 am
I feel sorry for Hubby. Depending on our parents and how one was raised, often told that was a sin and a no-no, thus the embarrasment.
Is it normal, YES and for some people, it’s a very private thing and if raised as above . . . . really private and would be most embarrasing if caught.
As per previous comments, if it happens again, go to him and take over where he left off and make mad passionate love to him . . . he’s your husband!!!! and he’s ready!!!
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June 22nd, 2010 at 11:40 am
hehe i wishi could catch my man because he swears he does not do it!! i tell him ya I do it doesnt make me want to do it less with you sometimes your not around when I get in the mood. do not take it personally. it is what the human body just does.
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June 22nd, 2010 at 12:18 pm
It’s a normal thing. Most people do it at one time or another. I think I’d say something like, "you started without me, here let me help … that was fun"
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July 19th, 2010 at 1:05 pm
posts? Could be this in turn placed under creative commons?