He needs to show he wants a reconciliation with his actions and not with just his words. If he doesn’t make the effort to rebuild the trust and love in your relationship then you do need to move on.
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June 19th, 2010 at 9:11 am
No,not at all.You deserve better!
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June 19th, 2010 at 9:57 am
No way. Three strikes, you’re out!
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June 19th, 2010 at 10:47 am
Nope. It would be the END the 1st time. We both know this of each other…. so, if one or the other decides to cheat – they are picking that person over our family. There will be no 2nd chances. We both come from cheating parents and know we have NO ROOM FOR IT IN OUR LIVES. 3x?? Your crazy.
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Seen what it does to a person – will NEVER let it happen.
June 19th, 2010 at 11:37 am
No. I wasn’t born yesterday. Once would be my limit. If he screwed up again, he’d be gone. I don’t even know if I could handle it once to be honest. I have more self respect than to be with someone who didn’t respect me, our marriage, our vows, etc.
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June 19th, 2010 at 12:10 pm
What kind of dumbass question is that?
You should stay with him. You just wanted a sliver of sympathy of strangers when you wrote your question. Truly, you didn’t expect anybody to say that you should stay with him.
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June 19th, 2010 at 12:42 pm
nope
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June 19th, 2010 at 1:00 pm
no one deserves to get cheated on, you shouldn’t take that because it causes more troubles along the way with trust issues and other such things.
dont believe anything he says at the moment.
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June 19th, 2010 at 1:49 pm
No, he didn’t the last 3 times why will he stop now? You deserve someone better. You made it ok by taking him back the other times. Now it’s time to leave
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June 19th, 2010 at 2:00 pm
3rd time is worse…the following ones come easier…be aware
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June 19th, 2010 at 2:19 pm
Noway!!
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June 19th, 2010 at 2:40 pm
I would not have believed him after the first time. If you forgive, only do it once. He will cheat again, he has proven it.
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June 19th, 2010 at 3:09 pm
He needs to show he wants a reconciliation with his actions and not with just his words. If he doesn’t make the effort to rebuild the trust and love in your relationship then you do need to move on.
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June 19th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Well you have forgiven him all these other times. What do you have to loose that you have not already lost. You should let him know that if he does it again he will only see smoke. You would be gone so fast he won’t know what to do.
Keep your eyes wide open and also start planning your escape agenda and do it in grand style. Make that bastard sorry that he did it the first time.
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June 19th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Don’t do it, you’ll just end up going through even more heartbreak and end up having to leave him anyway in the long run. Why GIVE him YOUR time, YOUR life, years of your life. Take that time to heal and improve your standing in life, don’t give that time to him to stomp all over you and break your heart again.
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June 19th, 2010 at 4:44 pm
You already know what people will say but you want someone to say give the jerk another chance so you don’t feel guilty when you tell him to leave. He shouldn’t even ask for another reconciliation. He doesn’t deserve one. I wouldn’t allow my heart to make the decision. let your brain decide for you. Help him pack and remain friends.
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June 19th, 2010 at 4:49 pm
3 strikes…you’re out!!!!
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June 19th, 2010 at 5:32 pm
NO FREAKING WAY!!!!!!
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He had his 1st chance when you gave him a 2nd chance, don’t reconcile, he will do it again and again and again because he will know you will ALWAYS have him back!!
June 19th, 2010 at 5:52 pm
Depends, is he staring at the barrel of a gun with his arms in the air?
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June 19th, 2010 at 5:58 pm
give him the chance to prove himself.but let him realize that if he does it again its over!
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June 19th, 2010 at 6:04 pm
No way..dump him
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June 19th, 2010 at 6:28 pm
sure
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June 19th, 2010 at 6:55 pm
Yes, i’d believe it… then i’d think "he’s insane!".
I wouldn’t go back to someone who cheated on me once.
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June 19th, 2010 at 7:23 pm
God always shows us the true nature of who we let into our lives. ( this is how I view most relationships). In my opinion, if the guy/girl you’re in a relationship with even cheats on you ONCE, then he/she will be forever known as a cheater. Even a sinner can be forgiven for their sins when they truly work on never committing the sin again, but in your cheating husband’s case, he had sinned against you 3 times. He obviously need to get some professional help before he can truly be faithful but it might take years and a person only needs to see the other side of a person once to know if they’re really loyal. Since he has yet to show you that he loves you enough to stop embarassing the relationship, then the answer is a definate NO. But don’t worry, through prayer and faith, God will bring your true and loyal partner into your life soon so leave it up to Him to show you your destiny.
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June 19th, 2010 at 7:29 pm
I would believe he wants to reconcile but I wouldn’t believe he would never cheat again. No way would I take back some guy who has cheated on me 3 times (and those are the ones you know about not necessarily the only times he’s cheated).
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June 19th, 2010 at 8:19 pm
He most likely does want to reconcile, he has found out that the grass is not greener on the other side.
If you don’t like being cheated on then I suggest you not reconcile with him. After 3 times, you take him back and he knows that you will accept it. Your just being a doormat for him.
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June 19th, 2010 at 8:27 pm
no cause i’m sure it will be number 4 once you reconcile!
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June 19th, 2010 at 8:33 pm
I’d absolutely believe he’s changed….
Not… leave him.
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June 19th, 2010 at 8:47 pm
Nope…..once would be the END.
I don’t go for that schitt.
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