Now sweetie why would you want to do that? Because if you do that he will only feel better that he did what he did in the first place and you want him to carry all the guilt for doing you wrong……. if you get what I mean?
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28 Responses to “If you are having an affair and you catch your spouse having an affair, do you tell them about yours?”
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June 5th, 2010 at 9:40 am
No need !!!! But why were you cheating in first place then?/??
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June 5th, 2010 at 10:02 am
Now why w ould you give them that ammo? Just to be hurtful back at them? I’d leave it alone if it were me.
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June 5th, 2010 at 10:50 am
sure…why not? not out of spite….just to say…"hey…knock yourself out"
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June 5th, 2010 at 11:33 am
Well, obviously honestly hasn’t been a part of your relationship this far…
Why are you guys even together if you’re both cheating on each other? If you guys don’t love each other enough to be faithful, you shouldn’t be married anymore.
Yes, you should tell. Don’t be mad at whoever you’re married to and throw a fit when you’re doing the same thing. You need to fess up.
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June 5th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
Never never never tell. Get divorced, but never tell…
no one deserves that pain.
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June 5th, 2010 at 12:22 pm
ICK! But if you are having an affair and you catch your spouse in an affair….then I think it would be the right thing to do….Not fair for you to come off as being the sweet innocent one…..
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June 5th, 2010 at 12:37 pm
Why bother? If they were paying attention to me then they wouldn’t be having their own affair. It’s likely their own guilt that made them fess up, anyways.
The Muse
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June 5th, 2010 at 1:20 pm
DIVORCE!!!WHy does nearly everyone think cheating is the way to go?Some people really need some help on YA.This is ridiculous.Dont get married or commit to someone if youre going to bang everyone else.That is why good faithful people cant find a good unhurt partner.No wonder the world doesnt trust anymore.
Yeah Id tell them.Hell what do you have to lose,you obviously didnt want them to start with.
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June 5th, 2010 at 1:40 pm
If you both screw other people, why on earth are you married? Did those vows of fidelity and love mean nothing?
You are both pathetic, sad excuses for human beings, and i just hope that there are no children involved, to have 2 such shameful specimens as parents.
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June 5th, 2010 at 1:50 pm
If you both are having affairs I would question how committed you both are to your marriage and to each other. There are issues and it may be a sign that you two need to move on with seperate lifes.
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June 5th, 2010 at 2:36 pm
swingers in the making?
I agree with NDNQT196′s answer above!!!! dont try to be the innocent one.
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June 5th, 2010 at 2:45 pm
yes. both of you need to sit down and discuss why you are each cheating on one another.
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June 5th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
Might be nice to be honest so it doesn’t catch up with you down the road plus is there a reason for your cheating? Is there something your not getting in your marriage if there is than get a divorce than stop the affairs
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June 5th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
Now sweetie why would you want to do that? Because if you do that he will only feel better that he did what he did in the first place and you want him to carry all the guilt for doing you wrong……. if you get what I mean?
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June 5th, 2010 at 4:00 pm
You’re both losers…hope you haven’t reproduced!!! You’re both gutless…..oh and Julia we ALL know where you’ve been….
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June 5th, 2010 at 4:17 pm
If you wanted to save your relationship with your spouse or husband, the both of should be honest to tell each other about your mistakes… nobody is perfect… temptation is always there, its us actually who made our own decisions… I know both of will understand each other as long as both of have a good communication.
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June 5th, 2010 at 4:26 pm
I would – especially if you are going to try to make the marriage work.
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June 5th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
The both of you need to"SUCK IT UP"(metaphorically speaking)HAHA &stop the cheating….Ps there is a site the 2 of u need to see.It’s called Fling.com no joke just take a look it might be the answer ur both looking for.HOPE IT HELPS!!!
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June 5th, 2010 at 5:47 pm
Why don’t you just end the marriage, because it’s obvious that you both don’t even know what marriage is. It’s also obvious that you don’t even know what love is. All you two know is how have sex!
If you both were in love and happily married, you wouldn’t have to get it somewhere else, so end the joke and maybe someday you’ll both learn that there’s more to life than just jumping from bed to bed.
I hope there are no children involved, but I’m sure there is! GROW UP!
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June 5th, 2010 at 6:17 pm
There would be no need to tell, but if you are BOTH cheating, shouldn’t you guys just break up???
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June 5th, 2010 at 6:29 pm
If you are cheating and your spouse is too, end the marriage.
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June 5th, 2010 at 6:35 pm
just tell your spouse that you know he or she has an affair and tell about yours too, then just go your seperate ways
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June 5th, 2010 at 6:46 pm
Yeah, sure, if you’re both banging other people.. I think it’d be a good idea to let each other know. You can’t make him look guilty alone when you’re just as guilty. Get a divorce already!!!!!
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June 5th, 2010 at 7:18 pm
Oh yes – by all means share ALL of the lurid details with each other then let us know how it went.
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June 5th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
What for!??! Just keep right on lying that is the only way a marriage can last anyway!!!
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June 5th, 2010 at 7:50 pm
cant understand why u would be together if you are both having affairs
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June 5th, 2010 at 8:27 pm
wow this marriage sux!!..big time..!!
as for answer..well neways somhw someday both of u r coming to knw of each otehrs affair..
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June 5th, 2010 at 8:42 pm
Not so much… I would suggest an open relationship OR keep hush about it all. YOu have a get out of jail free card.
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