I do it like this…

I say, YOU KNOW YOU DID XXX, in a very straightforward and stern way. (Don’t ask if they did something, tell.) Then they start to wiggle. You repeat until they come clean.

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11 Responses to “How do you catch your spouse in a lie?”

  1. lasttexasknight Says:

    If you are suspicious of your spouse… document the inconsistances… and act like everything is cool. He will slip up and you will catch him. It’s not that hard to catch a cheater.
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  2. sarlee Says:

    I always have that gut feeling……that deep down wont go away gut feeling
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  3. † Anna † Says:

    It’s not hard. He’s not very good at it.
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  4. that judi Says:

    By listening to his words and watching his body language.
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  5. Dani Says:

    the answer is in this video .. im sure ur gonna love it !

    http://www.howcast.com/videos/1885-How-To-Detect-a-Lie
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  6. somerandomdude Says:

    Aside from hidden videos, PIs and all the other legal niceties, and assuming this is just for personal decision-making, the easiest way is to simply ask only questions to which you already know the answer.

    Make it a point to find out who’s doing what, where, when, and where he goes. It might not hurt to hire a PI if you suspect an impending divorce or something similar. Most of all, keep a calm (downright ice-cold) demeanor. Do not allow emotion to show in the discussion, whether you catch him lying or not.

    Try not to ask the questions until you’re sure you know the answer. Lots of people ask questions too soon, and it only makes the person more careful about covering their tracks. Play dumb, oblivious, and then drop the hammer when you know the real deal.
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  7. tara Says:

    Your gut feeling will tell you when things don’t seem right. Inconsistencies will show up not only in lying, but in behaviour too. When I was married, I played it cool while I was wondering what in the h*** is wrong with him and then a few months later it hit me and I wondered how I didn’t see it all along. Good luck.
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  8. Reality (New Account) Says:

    I do it like this…

    I say, YOU KNOW YOU DID XXX, in a very straightforward and stern way. (Don’t ask if they did something, tell.) Then they start to wiggle. You repeat until they come clean.
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  9. Terri S Says:

    go with your gut, then confront him,
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  10. michelle Says:

    By looking him straight in the eye. He gets nervous and starts stuttering.
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  11. Best Answer Says:

    Looking at her body language.
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