Apparently in the USA (maybe elsewhere too) there are agencies who you pay to send a hot girl into a bar where your husband drinks and hit on him – and check to see if he responds to them or says "no thanks, I’m married".
Would you consider using one of these agency decoy girls? Maybe you have used one to test him… what happened?
no my husbands loyal to me, his a good man , hugs
May 31st, 2010 at 1:56 am
Lmao…what ever happened to trust in a marriage or any type of relationship…good lord
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May 31st, 2010 at 2:10 am
That’s pretty crappy all around……
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May 31st, 2010 at 2:19 am
Could I pay one to keep him? Its been a bad day.
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May 31st, 2010 at 2:50 am
Yes !Yes !Ka’al al Tess !
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May 31st, 2010 at 3:02 am
NO. That’s just stupid. Do not test God, or Love.
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May 31st, 2010 at 3:42 am
wow is there such a thing?
I sure would………..I’d hate to think of him cheating on me though………..so maybe it is better to not know.
Furthermore…………….could I trust that the agency is reallly a decoy girl or one that is looking?
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May 31st, 2010 at 4:18 am
I’ve seen programmes about this – like not only does the husband get caught but its on international TV lol
If i thought my fella was the type to cheat, maybe he started going out to places without his mates… then i’d definately pay someone to try and seduce him.
The worst part of being cheated on is the fact you didn’t know about it and being all loved up with him when he came home.
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May 31st, 2010 at 4:51 am
its sad but we all know 99% of them will go with the decoy.
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May 31st, 2010 at 5:27 am
A. I would never marry a guy who hangs in bars. Too many drunk women there..easy pickins. Too many slutty men waiting for drunken women to fall down and then claim they didn’t mean it! It meant nothing!
B. I would have to be a fairly stupid woman to pay someone to tempt a man I hope I know well enough to marry to have sex with them.
C. Gross waste of money and only proves they should not have married in the first place. ..unless she is having it all filmed for the divorce proceedings because she shoulda known him better in the first place and found out too late he is not worth her time and effort and has judged her to be just not good enough for him.
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May 31st, 2010 at 5:56 am
That much energy isnt really necessary. My husband isnt going to any bars but I have been known to put an anonymous note on his car window at work and wait to see if he mentions it. Our boundaries start wayyyy back at honesty. I wouldnt LET it get to "how long did you hump the girl on the dance floor".
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May 31st, 2010 at 6:27 am
If you have a feeling that he is, either way, why not get proof?
Yes i would, and i would hope that he did the right thing
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May 31st, 2010 at 6:41 am
My wife sent me a girl named angelina. But we ended up together. Her name was jennifer. She’s long gone. Out of the picture.
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May 31st, 2010 at 7:01 am
i wouldnt do it i trust my husband and in any good relationship i tyhink thats how it should be if you are gonna pay a hot girl to hit on your man then you need to find a new man
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May 31st, 2010 at 7:15 am
the agencies you are referring to are usually detective agencies, and the funny thing is if a woman suspects that her husband is cheating then the chances of her being right is 90 per cent, but if a man suspects his wife is cheating they only have a 50 percent chance of being right, probably women have womans intuition, woman notice things consciencely and unconsciencly that give them the clues they need. would i use them, only if i couldn’t find out any other way and that is only because a woman can usually find out these things without spending this type of money if she tries and puts a little effort into it, it isn’t that hard to catch a man cheating, but some women dont cause quite frankly they dont want to know sometimes
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May 31st, 2010 at 7:49 am
HELL YEA~!~
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May 31st, 2010 at 8:22 am
It’s not really natural if your husband isn’t hit on by hot chicks regularly. A hot chick aggressively pursuing a guy is not a real scenario (usually), and the guy may not handle the pressure and attention too well. Now, if you just send in hot chicks and they don’t actively pursue him and he tries to hook-up with them, thats different and more realistic. Most guys that are true dogs will go after girls constantly and always be on the look out for action. I think merely chatting and playful flirting don’t necessarily indicate a desire to cheat.
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May 31st, 2010 at 9:11 am
I don’t think I could handle the feeling if he would go for her. It took me years to trust him and to think for one moment it would all be taken. As a wife, I wouldnt give my husband the chance to even have the time to flirt with a girl less go to a bar.
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May 31st, 2010 at 9:26 am
I’ve heard about this and wondered how it worked. You see I am absolutely faithful in a relationship, but do do enjoy a harmless flirt sometimes. So if some girl comes on to me in a bar and I have a bit of a flirt with her, does she run back to the misses and say I was putty in her hands, or does she go all the way first.
Both ways would split up my relationship, but the second way would never happen.
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May 31st, 2010 at 9:35 am
When people do things like this, they fail to understand that no matter what the outcome they have undermined their relationship to the point of destruction. The person "passes" the test but they still know that their partner does not have trust in them and without trust you have no relationship. Or the person "fails" the set-up and the relationship is over so what exactly is the purpose of this game?
Yes I said game. This is a nasty little game and the thing to remember is that when you play games someone has to lose!
Perhaps the money would be better spent in counseling or for charity while the couple practices open, honest communication instead.
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May 31st, 2010 at 10:22 am
i would have a decoy try to seduce my husband. i have caught he doing things before and i would like to know if he is still doing these things or if he learned his leason and stopped
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May 31st, 2010 at 10:56 am
if i thought my hubby was going to cheat or had cheated yeah i would use one but if there is no trust whats the point in being with your man.
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May 31st, 2010 at 11:35 am
no my husbands loyal to me, his a good man , hugs
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May 31st, 2010 at 12:24 pm
The problem with this is that most American women work and have their own money.
A proper foreign marriage would not allow the wife enough money for the wemen to contract this service………..
For those who do not understand sarcasm, this was a JOKE!
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May 31st, 2010 at 12:52 pm
No I wouldn’t..would make me just as guilty as him..no thanks.
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May 31st, 2010 at 1:17 pm
No, I trust my husband.
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May 31st, 2010 at 1:29 pm
i want to i trust him but he is still a man.
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May 31st, 2010 at 1:36 pm
And to think I actually work hard all day when i could have a good job catching cheating wives.
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May 31st, 2010 at 1:44 pm
Hell to the NO!!! No I wouldnt because all that is done in the dark will come out. I personally could be using those funds for other things. If you don’t trust your husband then those are some issues you all need to work out b/c either you have trust issues or he has done something to make you not trust him. Therefore some help is needed whether from your pastor or some type of counselor. I say go the help route and save your money. If you just want to spend it…spend it on one of those marriage retreats with a certified counselor. Kind of like those Dr. Phil camps.
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May 31st, 2010 at 2:15 pm
This is so underhanded and sneaky. If you were working for the police dept. this would be ‘entrapment’ and that’s illegal.
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May 31st, 2010 at 2:32 pm
He wouldn’t be looking around if all was well at home.
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May 31st, 2010 at 2:38 pm
well i would never pay someone to do it but i think it would be very interesting to see what happens
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May 31st, 2010 at 3:03 pm
yes i would a judge doesn’t like it when a divorce comes up and your spouse has committed adultry
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May 31st, 2010 at 3:29 pm
Don’t spend the money he is cheating. Here are the facts of life for all you dimwits:
1. There is no Santa
2. Everyone lies (even to themselves)
3. Life is not fair
4. All men cheat
5. Marriage sucks
Happy Holidays. Any other questions email me if you actually want to hear the truth not the fairy tales you believe.
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