no thumbs down from me; i appreciate the reality check;’)
Im not obvious when I look, I know she looks. Plus it helps if I wear sunglasses. Im smart, and not dead. lol
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25 Responses to “How do YOU react when/if you catch your husband checking out another chick?”
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May 28th, 2010 at 1:09 pm
make like you did not notice
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May 28th, 2010 at 1:14 pm
My thing is they can look but can’t touch.
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May 28th, 2010 at 1:44 pm
I always laugh at him & tell him to quit being so obvious. He’s always obvious about it.
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May 28th, 2010 at 1:49 pm
We talk about it – usually I make some comment like ‘great legs but my boobs are better’ and its just a joke lol! Its normal and healthy for men and women to ‘window shop’ and as long as thats all that he does its fine!
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May 28th, 2010 at 2:05 pm
I don’t do anything. I think "checking out" members of the opposite sex is a completely natural thing. Besides, my husband respects me enough to just take a quick peek.
The difference is staring. I mean, if my husband is outright staring at some chick, or giving her that stupid up and down eye thing that guys do, I’d be furious. However, little glances or quick looks aren’t something I’d ever get upset about — he’s only human.
By the way, so am I.
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May 28th, 2010 at 2:35 pm
My husband wouldn’t disrespect me that way but if he did I think I’d be really hurt. That would be sad to be married and out on the town and have your spouse acting like a 12 year old.
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May 28th, 2010 at 2:53 pm
Just because your on a diet doesn’t mean you can’t look at the menu!
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May 28th, 2010 at 3:43 pm
he can window shop all he wants, but he is not allowed in the store to try on or buy what he’s looking at. I know he is human and I trust him.
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May 28th, 2010 at 3:50 pm
suggest a threesome?
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May 28th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
I pretend to be irritated, he pretends to only have been looking at her because he thinks I would be "hot in that outfit." Then he tells me I’m sexier than any 18-year-old, then we have hot sex.
Which is why I am always taking him to the mall….
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May 28th, 2010 at 5:06 pm
After 10 years of marriage and two kids with him, I don’t say a word. Why stressing over it when we all "look and check out" for the heck of it?
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May 28th, 2010 at 5:22 pm
I check her out too. He’s in a relationship. Not dead.
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May 28th, 2010 at 5:43 pm
Lighten up some. Be glad he is alive! he will quit looking when he is dead, until then just ask him to be a little more discreet please.
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May 28th, 2010 at 5:59 pm
It really makes my wife mad if I put my nose about one inch away from their tanger and inhale deeply.
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Well she said as long as I don’t touch.
May 28th, 2010 at 6:12 pm
I just shake my head and laugh at him. OrI do the two eye gesture between the two of us "Look HERE" lol.
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May 28th, 2010 at 6:39 pm
I ask him what he likes about her? Then we compare the ones he looks at to the ones I look at…
I’m not stupid. I know it’s natural for both men and women to notice the opposite sex. In fact, all people can appreciate beauty in either sex. It’s only looking…
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May 28th, 2010 at 6:52 pm
Peoples eyes wonder. It’s natural. If it doesn’t go past looking – theres nothing to worry about:)
I did a vid on roaming eyes and how i deal with it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvharJuzWeg&feature=channel
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May 28th, 2010 at 7:17 pm
Depends. As Mrs. Heather said, there are two different ways to check out. The staring/oggling like the girl is a piece of meat and then there is the quick glance.
If he is staring/oggling….then he would get the "eyebrow raise" and "evil eye" as he calls it. Granted, he has never gotten in trouble for oggling, but he does know what the "evil eye" is and would know immediately that he was being stupid and would quickly apologize and start sucking up.
If he is just doing the quick look, I usually will check out the girl myself…or find another much hotter girl to point out and say "Yea, she is cute, but wow! look at the rack on that girl over there!" And then we get into a conversation about racks and hottness….and on what we each found attractive about the girl.
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May 28th, 2010 at 7:50 pm
Hey Mama,
Really ? I check chicks out all the time, its like lookin at flowers per say. But – a lil story- a buddy of mine sent me a pic on my e-mail of this model on the beach and at the bottom of the pic it said-
SOME WHERE SOME BODY IS PUTTING UP WITH HER SHIT !
So yea, i laugh and its probably true, but don’t worry. Maybe you should point out the chicks you think are hot or good looking or kinda funny looking, make it a game and roll with it.
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May 28th, 2010 at 8:02 pm
Im not obvious when I look, I know she looks. Plus it helps if I wear sunglasses. Im smart, and not dead. lol
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May 28th, 2010 at 8:15 pm
I don’t react at all – why would it matter? I look when I see a good looking man, why can’t he look at a woman?
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happily married, no jealousy
May 28th, 2010 at 8:55 pm
It depends. If it’s just the once-over with the eyes I don’t say anything but if it’s like, gawking or looking her over for like 20 seconds I say "Hi, I’m your wife?" or "Wouldn’t you just love to bang her?" or something like that—out loud so everyone can hear, of course.
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I think it’s disrespectful.
May 28th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
it is natural to look at others…but if we are together then its disrespectful and i dont tolerate it
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May 28th, 2010 at 10:28 pm
I usually say in our native language, "Nice boobs on her, huh?" That usually makes him stop staring.
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May 28th, 2010 at 10:44 pm
Check her out too *lol*
However if anyone has the "wandering eye" around here its me.
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